Are you still stuck on yet?

Are you “stuck yet?” If so, don’t let fear, doubt or disappointment steal your future or keep you from your desires. Instead, see yourself as the person you want to become. Human Beings naturally navigate towards the images they hold in their minds. Empower yourself and create the images you want to attract.

Consider asking these questions that will change your life. They can help him unstuck and break his bondage.

“What do I really want, but don’t have?”

“What do I want and already have?”

“What is it that I will absolutely, unequivocally no longer tolerate?”

Questions like these will give you both an assessment and an appreciation of how much you already have. They also challenge you to identify new and empowering expectations. So go ahead. Make the decision to take a quantum leap towards your dreams and desires. Take a piece of paper and make three columns for each of the following:

1) What I want but don’t have (relationship, vehicle, career,…)

2) What I want and already have (family, security, my own home)

3) What I will no longer tolerate (disorganization, poverty, depression, …)

You may already know exactly what you won’t tolerate. But what if you don’t know what you want?

If you’re not sure what you really want, then you’re looking for a transformational change… whether you know it or not. Start your search right where you are. Decide, right now, to be the change you want to see.

For example, if you want a lean, lean body and you’re 42 extra pounds of fat and you know it, look happy, lean, and lean. Commit to a healthy exercise and eating program to lose 2.5 pounds of fat per week. Within four months, you will have achieved your vision.

Perhaps you are missing out on one of the greatest gifts that ever existed: loving and fulfilling relationships. See yourself happy and fully engaged in adventure, fun, and excitement. Think of all the ways you can put magic in the world. Then, commit to connecting or reconnecting with at least two people a week to foster or rekindle healthy, loving, spark-filled relationships.

Remember, if you are stuck, decide to get unstuck immediately. Become action-oriented and start right where you are. Resolve to stay optimistic and keep moving in the direction of your goal, regardless of how you feel or how things look.

There is a picture of your spectacular life grandeur waiting to be painted.

Won’t you become the artist?