Couples and sexuality: 7 ways to start having a better sex life tonight

Are you ready for some fireworks this July 4th, or has your sizzle just fizzled out? Perhaps you are looking for ways to boost your desire, to re-ignite things with you and your partner? A little planning can go a long way in and out of the bedroom. Here are some sexy success tips to help you have some summer fun starting tonight!

1. Take a dip to heat things up for summer: make out by the pool, in the hot tub, or on the beach in the ocean. Sensual kisses in the sunlight or moonlight can really get you both in the mood for love!

2. Try different positions in bed. If you find yourself on top most of the time, why not change things up? Have your partner ride you for a change. Giddy Up!

3. Fantasy Role Play: Try some light bondage with silk scarves. Let your lover tie you up and tease you, or do it yourself. Be sure to negotiate everything in advance.

4. Use safe stop words like “red light” and go on as “green light” to let others know what they really enjoy and what they don’t enjoy.

5. Host a fondue party for two. Feed yourself with melted chocolate in a fondue pot. Feed yourself chocolate-dipped berries and bananas, or have fun dripping the chocolate and licking it off each other. Then take your party to the couch or bedroom.

6. Try to do a striptease dance. Play sexy music and dance. Take a long time, removing each piece of clothing slowly. Tell your lover to watch or let him touch you while you are dancing. This can drive them crazy with anticipation.

7. Make some noise while you make love. Making sounds, saying your love’s name, can be very exciting (as long as it’s the right name!)

Above all have fun. Be playful. be adventurous Try something new that you always wanted. As long as you both agree to explore, you just might find a fabulous new secret that you both share!