Experiences that are sweeter than sex and pornography
Getting released after days, weeks, months, or years of imprisonment: If you think freedom is cheap and unimportant, reconsider. Some prisoners can pay anything to get out of detention centers. When you are locked up, your highest priority is freedom and the taste for sex dies naturally. Maybe, the prisoner’s prison sentence is seven years and he gets his freedom within a year, what kind of sex will give him what kind of joy he will feel. Inmates who have sexual desires are those who are comfortable with prison conditions or those who are used to confinement. Be that as it may, no sex can taste better than the prison warden who opens the prison door and tells you to go home. The sweetest word in jail is freedom and not sex. The thrill of freedom cannot be compared to the skeletal pleasure of sex. The agony of being held hostage by the kidnappers is immeasurable. Therefore, the joy of gaining freedom after being with people who could kill your hostage at any moment can never be measured by the pleasure of sex.
Being vindicated of a crime you didn’t commit after several attempts to prove your innocence: Only those who have tasted the pains of being wrongly accused of committing a crime know the sweetness of being vindicated. I have seen guys who have been wrongly accused of raping underage girls. The burden of false accusation will automatically kill sexual desire. Let’s say a happily married father of children is wrongly accused of raping a ten-year-old girl. Possibly, he could be highly respected in his religious and professional circle. The result could be threatened divorce from his wife, disrespect from his children and dismissal from his job, as well as excommunication from the place of worship. The exoneration of this man is much more pleasurable than sexual intercourse. I have tested the euphoria of people claimed responsibility for crimes they were wrongly accused of and found it to be better than sexual diversion.
Calming down after being pressured for a long time: I was once on a bus traveling from Imo State to Rivers State in Nigeria. The trip will take about two hours. Immediately the bus took off, I got very pressured, it was clear that I must visit the bathroom to poop immediately. I figured I could take it until we got to Port Harcourt since it was already 9:00 pm and no driver would stop on the side of the road to allow me to poop for fear of armed robbers. From that moment I lost my peace. I felt uncomfortable with everything. I wanted to sit, stand, move left and right at the same time. The night was cold but I was sweating confused. At one point the waste almost came out of my anus, I almost cried. At this point, not even the most beautiful girl in the world, along with her counterparts across the entire continent of the world would arouse my sexual drive. All I wanted was to be free and avoid the shame of getting dirty. We got to the engine part and I immediately ran to the bathroom leaving all my belongings in the bus. The way I felt while pooping, no sexual intercourse can be more pleasurable than that.
Reuniting with an old close friend after several years of losing touch: You cannot measure the amount of joy you feel when you meet an old friend or a childhood friend. The carefree cry, shout, hug and kiss are evidence of the pleasure of meeting an old friend. Maybe you are now forty years old and your very close friend when you were five years old just turned up after about thirty five years of loss of contact, the pleasure cannot be compared to sex. You will sit with your friend, you will give each other old nicknames, you will tell life stories and before you understand it you will unconsciously spend hours with him.
Succeeding in an exam after multiple attempts: Consider the pain of paying a new tuition and exam fee, the agony of failing after multiple readings day and night, and the embarrassment of being mocked and disappointment of seeing Your classmates will move to a higher class while you repeat. All of this and more will make anyone celebrate success on a particular exam after multiple attempts to pass. You may not understand what I’m saying until you’ve failed a particular exam six times and finally pass it on the seventh time.
Your team winning a match you thought was impossible to win: It was at the 1996 Olympics and no African country has ever won gold in soccer. In one of the semifinal matches, Nigeria was playing against Brazil and the score was 3:1 in favor of Brazil. Everyone, including me, felt like the game was over until Nwankwo Kanu scored the equalizing goal and the winning goals respectively. That night I saw Nigerians run out of their houses into the street completely naked. I saw very responsible men loading their wives with pots, washing bowls, mortar, etc. upside down and running down the street. Some lay down on the road regardless of the series of cars on the road driven by crazy drivers inflicted joy. What kind of sex can make a man feel like this?
Getting a job after several years of unemployment: Receiving an email informing you to return to work the next day after several years of job hunting is more pleasurable than sex.
Another test you’ve had shows you don’t have the incurable disease that the previous medical test showed you do have: Confirming that the formal results of a medical test showing you have a terminal illness is incorrect is more desirable than sex. The lab scientist has just found out that he used a leukemia patient’s blood sample to perform his own test and kneels before you, apologizing for his mistake. No kind of sex or pornography can make you feel the way you feel after this confirmation.
Becoming a millionaire after years of living in poverty: Poverty can be frustrating and suicidal. When an underprivileged man unexpectedly becomes rich, sexual pleasure cannot be compared to such happiness. Perhaps a hundred dollar a month salaryman has just won a two million dollar jackpot; no pornography can compare to the joy of it.
Peace after a long time of political, tribal or religious war in your country: Go and ask the people of Libya, Syria, South Sudan, Nigeria, Iraq, etc., what is their greatest prayer; the common response will be peace. Only the living can have sex, what people in this country want is peace, so when they get it, it’s sweeter than sex.
Knowing that your little help helped save someone’s life, job or destiny: Recognizing that the Ten Dollars you gave to your neighbor paid for the medicines that saved his son’s life, Identifying that the little training you gave to a man helps you get a better job or the few tips you gave that teenager who helped you get off drugs can be more satisfying than sex or pornography.
Being alive after having thought that you would die from illness, accident, or seizure: You are driving in a fast lane coming face to face with a truck whose brake has just failed. You just close your eyes, waiting for the heavy blow because there is nowhere to hide. A few seconds later you opened your eyes hoping to see the gate of heaven, but found that you were still driving your car. The truck had crossed into the other lane and crushed more than seven cars. What sex or pornography will make you feel the way you do when someone points a gun to your head and you hear the sound of a gunshot and find out that the police have just shot your attacker in the back?
Getting compliments and recommendations from your employer after everyone thought you were incompetent: Compliments from an employer who has never seen anything good in you can be so much better than sex. Perhaps, you have been labeled as the black sheep of the organization and there are even plans to fire you. But, one day your employer shows up and gives you an award as the best employee of the month and a promotion letter.
Completing a task you thought was too big for you – Completing a mission that you and most people feel is impossible brings greater pleasure than sex. Most inventors have little or no regard for sex because their discoveries satisfy them. The happiness of doing great things dwarfs the urge or pleasure of sex and pornography.
Giving birth to a baby after months of pregnancy. The discomfort, pain and sleepless nights of pregnancy are indescribable. The fear of complications or death during pregnancy is also scary. The anxiety to see your offspring is tempting. The prestige sought and the honor of fatherhood is tempting. Therefore, no sexual pleasure can surpass the first cry of a newborn baby. That single cry is worth more than the gold mines of South Africa, No orgasm can beat the sweetness of that cry.